bartch upgrade dependencies (#3299)

* upgrade dependencies

* don't use reset sessions

* downgrade transformers, upgrade other deps

* upgrade bnb to 0.49.0

* restore s3 cache

* explicit use local files w hub

* decompress and strip top level dir

* use 2 levels for strip components

* try to preserve permissions for symlinks

* use updated tar

* fix #3293 for distributed

* downgrade bnb

* fast fail after 4

* fix total tokens device

* patch accelerate CP/SP (#3309)

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Co-authored-by: salman <salman.mohammadi@outlook.com>

requirements.txt

@@ -14,12 +14,12 @@ huggingface_hub>=0.36.0
 peft>=0.18.0
 tokenizers>=0.22.1
 transformers==4.57.1
-accelerate==1.11.0
-datasets==4.4.1
-deepspeed>=0.17.0
-trl==0.25.0
+accelerate==1.12.0
+datasets==4.4.2
+deepspeed>=0.18.3
+trl==0.25.1
 hf_xet==1.2.0
-kernels>=0.9.0
+kernels==0.11.5
 trackio>=0.13.0
 typing_extensions>=4.14.0