bartch upgrade dependencies (#3299)

* upgrade dependencies

* don't use reset sessions

* downgrade transformers, upgrade other deps

* upgrade bnb to 0.49.0

* restore s3 cache

* explicit use local files w hub

* decompress and strip top level dir

* use 2 levels for strip components

* try to preserve permissions for symlinks

* use updated tar

* fix #3293 for distributed

* downgrade bnb

* fast fail after 4

* fix total tokens device

* patch accelerate CP/SP (#3309)

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Co-authored-by: salman <salman.mohammadi@outlook.com>

tests/conftest.py

@@ -62,7 +62,7 @@ def snapshot_download_w_retry(*args, **kwargs):
     """
     with hf_offline_context(True):
         try:
-            return snapshot_download(*args, **kwargs)
+            return snapshot_download(*args, local_files_only=True, **kwargs)
         except LocalEntryNotFoundError:
             pass
     with hf_offline_context(False):