Streaming SFT support (#3101)

* working

* fixes

* deprecate --iterable; cleanup

* pretrain_multipack_buffer_size -> streaming_multipack_buffer_size

* improvements

* tests

* remove unused

* docs, examples

* nit

* nit

* add val_set_size validation

* val

* nit

* min

* coderabbito

* cleanup

* nit

* add depr warning, cleanup

* nit

* fix test, fix quarto

* fix

* review comments

* review comments

* fix

tests/e2e/integrations/test_kd.py

@@ -25,7 +25,7 @@ def min_cfg(temp_dir):
         "liger_rms_norm": True,
         "liger_glu_activation": True,
         "torch_compile": True,
-        "chat_template": "llama3",
+        "chat_template": "qwen3",
         "kd_trainer": True,
         "kd_ce_alpha": 0.1,
         "kd_alpha": 0.9,