Update README.md (#2360)

* Update README.md

wheel is needed

* feat: add ninja, setuptools, packing to installation steps

* fix: add missing instruction

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Co-authored-by: NanoCode012 <nano@axolotl.ai>

docs/installation.qmd

@@ -22,6 +22,7 @@ This guide covers all the ways you can install and set up Axolotl for your envir
 ### PyPI Installation (Recommended) {#sec-pypi}
 
 ```{.bash}
+pip3 install -U packaging setuptools wheel ninja
 pip3 install --no-build-isolation axolotl[flash-attn,deepspeed]
 ```
 
@@ -37,7 +38,7 @@ For the latest features between releases:
 ```{.bash}
 git clone https://github.com/axolotl-ai-cloud/axolotl.git
 cd axolotl
-pip3 install packaging ninja
+pip3 install -U packaging setuptools wheel ninja
 pip3 install --no-build-isolation -e '.[flash-attn,deepspeed]'
 ```
 
@@ -107,7 +108,7 @@ We recommend using WSL2 (Windows Subsystem for Linux) or Docker.
 2. Install PyTorch: https://pytorch.org/get-started/locally/
 3. Install Axolotl:
    ```{.bash}
-   pip3 install packaging
+   pip3 install -U packaging setuptools wheel ninja
    pip3 install --no-build-isolation -e '.[flash-attn,deepspeed]'
    ```
 4. (Optional) Login to Hugging Face: