add 12.8.1 cuda to the base matrix (#2426)

* add 12.8.1 cuda to the base matrix

* use nightly

* bump deepspeed and set no binary

* deepspeed binary fixes hopefully

* install deepspeed by itself

* multiline fix

* make sure ninja is installed

* try with reversion of packaging/setuptools/wheel install

* use license instead of license-file

* try rolling back packaging and setuptools versions

* comment out license for validation for now

* make sure packaging version is consistent

* more parity across tests and docker images for packaging/setuptools

.github/workflows/pypi.yml

@@ -40,7 +40,7 @@ jobs:
 
       - name: Install dependencies
         run: |
-          pip3 install wheel packaging
+          pip3 install wheel packaging==23.2
           pip3 install --no-build-isolation -e .
           pip3 install -r requirements-dev.txt -r requirements-tests.txt