add 12.8.1 cuda to the base matrix (#2426)

* add 12.8.1 cuda to the base matrix

* use nightly

* bump deepspeed and set no binary

* deepspeed binary fixes hopefully

* install deepspeed by itself

* multiline fix

* make sure ninja is installed

* try with reversion of packaging/setuptools/wheel install

* use license instead of license-file

* try rolling back packaging and setuptools versions

* comment out license for validation for now

* make sure packaging version is consistent

* more parity across tests and docker images for packaging/setuptools

.github/workflows/tests.yml

@@ -74,7 +74,7 @@ jobs:
       - name: upgrade pip
         run: |
           pip3 install --upgrade pip
-          pip3 install --upgrade packaging setuptools wheel
+          pip3 install --upgrade packaging==23.2 setuptools==75.8.0 wheel
 
       - name: Install PyTorch
         run: |
@@ -147,7 +147,7 @@ jobs:
       - name: upgrade pip
         run: |
           pip3 install --upgrade pip
-          pip3 install --upgrade packaging setuptools setuptools_scm build wheel
+          pip3 install --upgrade packaging==23.2 setuptools==75.8.0 setuptools_scm build wheel
 
       - name: Install PyTorch
         run: |