add 12.8.1 cuda to the base matrix (#2426)

* add 12.8.1 cuda to the base matrix

* use nightly

* bump deepspeed and set no binary

* deepspeed binary fixes hopefully

* install deepspeed by itself

* multiline fix

* make sure ninja is installed

* try with reversion of packaging/setuptools/wheel install

* use license instead of license-file

* try rolling back packaging and setuptools versions

* comment out license for validation for now

* make sure packaging version is consistent

* more parity across tests and docker images for packaging/setuptools

requirements.txt

@@ -1,7 +1,7 @@
 --extra-index-url https://huggingface.github.io/autogptq-index/whl/cu118/
 
 # START section of dependencies that don't install on Darwin/MacOS
-bitsandbytes==0.45.2
+bitsandbytes==0.45.3
 triton>=3.0.0
 mamba-ssm==1.2.0.post1
 flash-attn==2.7.4.post1
@@ -10,14 +10,14 @@ autoawq==0.2.7.post3
 liger-kernel==0.5.3
 # END section
 
-packaging==24.2
+packaging==23.2
 
 peft==0.15.0
 transformers==4.49.0
 tokenizers>=0.21.1
 accelerate==1.5.2
 datasets==3.4.1
-deepspeed==0.16.1
+deepspeed==0.16.4
 trl==0.15.1
 
 optimum==1.16.2