Qwen3.5-MoE example config with lora_target_modules regex (#3515) [skip ci]

* lora target modules with regex

* updates

* fsdp for non moe

* update wording

* chore: cleanup and lint

* chore: cleanup docs from merge

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Co-authored-by: NanoCode012 <nano@axolotl.ai>

examples/qwen3.5/35b-a3b-moe-qlora.yaml

@@ -32,7 +32,11 @@ lora_target_modules:
   - v_proj
   - o_proj
 
-#lora_target_parameters:
+# Regex matching to target shared experts too
+# lora_target_modules: 'model\.(language_model\.)?layers\.[\d]+\.(mlp|self_attn)\.(shared_expert\.)?(up|down|gate|gate_up|q|k|v|o)_proj'
+
+# Target experts
+# lora_target_parameters:
 #   - mlp.experts.gate_up_proj
 #   - mlp.experts.down_proj