flash attn pip install (#426)

* flash attn pip

* add packaging

* add packaging to apt get

* install flash attn in dockerfile

* remove unused whls

* add wheel

* clean up pr

fix packaging requirement for ci
upgrade pip for ci
skip build isolation for requiremnents to get flash-attn working
install flash-attn seperately

* install wheel for ci

* no flash-attn for basic cicd

* install flash-attn as pip extras

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Co-authored-by: Ubuntu <mgh@mgh-vm.wsyvwcia0jxedeyrchqg425tpb.ax.internal.cloudapp.net>
Co-authored-by: mhenrichsen <some_email@hey.com>
Co-authored-by: Mads Henrichsen <mads@BrbartiendeMads.lan>
Co-authored-by: Wing Lian <wing.lian@gmail.com>

docker/Dockerfile

@@ -16,9 +16,9 @@ RUN git clone --depth=1 https://github.com/OpenAccess-AI-Collective/axolotl.git
 # If AXOLOTL_EXTRAS is set, append it in brackets
 RUN cd axolotl && \
     if [ "$AXOLOTL_EXTRAS" != "" ] ; then \
-        pip install -e .[$AXOLOTL_EXTRAS]; \
+        pip install -e .[flash-attn,$AXOLOTL_EXTRAS]; \
     else \
-        pip install -e .; \
+        pip install -e .[flash-attn]; \
     fi
 
 # fix so that git fetch/pull from remote works