fix build w pyproject to respect insalled torch version (#2168)

* fix build w pyproject to respect insalled torch version

* include in manifest

* disable duplicate code check for now

* move parser so it can be found

* add checks for correct pytorch version so this doesn't slip by again

scripts/motd

@@ -13,5 +13,5 @@ cd /workspace
 rm -rf /workspace/axolotl
 git clone https://github.com/axolotl-ai-cloud/axolotl.git
 cd axolotl
-pip install --no-deps -e .
+pip install --no-build-isolation --no-deps -e .
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