* fix 405b with lower cpu ram requirements
* make sure to use doouble quant and only skip output embeddings
* set model attributes
* more fixes for sharded fsdp loading
* update the base model in example to use pre-quantized nf4-bf16 weights
* upstream fixes for qlora+fsdp
* various batch of fixes
* more tweaks
* fix autoawq requirement for torch flexibility
* simplify conditionals
* multi-node fixes wip
* bump transformers and include 405b qlora+fsdp yaml