* add 12.8.1 cuda to the base matrix
* use nightly
* bump deepspeed and set no binary
* deepspeed binary fixes hopefully
* install deepspeed by itself
* multiline fix
* make sure ninja is installed
* try with reversion of packaging/setuptools/wheel install
* use license instead of license-file
* try rolling back packaging and setuptools versions
* comment out license for validation for now
* make sure packaging version is consistent
* more parity across tests and docker images for packaging/setuptools
