* fix optimizer reset
* set states to reset for 8bit optimizers and handle quantile runtime error for embeddings
* fix relora test to check grad_norm
* use flash attn for relora and tweak hyperparams for test
* fix messages field for test dataset
* feat: support new arg num_items_in_batch
* use kwargs to manage extra unknown kwargs for now
* upgrade against upstream transformers main
* make sure trl is on latest too
* fix for upgraded trl
* fix: handle trl and transformer signature change
* feat: update trl to handle transformer signature
* RewardDataCollatorWithPadding no longer has max_length
* handle updated signature for tokenizer vs processor class
* invert logic for tokenizer vs processor class
* processing_class, not processor class
* also handle processing class in dpo
* handle model name w model card creation
* upgrade transformers and add a loss check test
* fix install of tbparse requirements
* make sure to add tbparse to req
* feat: revert kwarg to positional kwarg to be explicit
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Co-authored-by: Wing Lian <wing.lian@gmail.com>
