* upgrade dependencies
* don't use reset sessions
* downgrade transformers, upgrade other deps
* upgrade bnb to 0.49.0
* restore s3 cache
* explicit use local files w hub
* decompress and strip top level dir
* use 2 levels for strip components
* try to preserve permissions for symlinks
* use updated tar
* fix#3293 for distributed
* downgrade bnb
* fast fail after 4
* fix total tokens device
* patch accelerate CP/SP (#3309)
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Co-authored-by: salman <salman.mohammadi@outlook.com>